Many single women spend their bachelor days longing for their soul mates, assuming that finding one is the answer to ultimate happiness. I will not deny that finding your match is unparalleled, but “marriage” is not a simple solution; Positioning with the wrong guy can actually lead to the opposite result.
While marriage has been shown to contribute to longer life and better overall health, it is harder to quantify happiness. In 2021, Valentine’s Day celebrations have seen many people adopt activities at home that allow for social alienation, with 41% having their romantic dates at home, and many doing so virtually. But guess what, even couples living together have suffered the consequences of social distance, with many feeling like they are spending too much time together and less able to create intimacy.
Most people tend to have certain behaviors and views that they carry throughout life that serve as the basis of their happiness – whether they are single or married – and finding the right man will complement but not necessarily change it.
Although I can not tell you if marriage is your answer to happiness, I can share the three stages of your relationship with yourself and another one that if nurtured carefully, will lead you on the path to success and marital happiness.
You may have dismissed the plethora of articles, blog posts, dating coaches and therapists who warned that you must be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else, but the reason you hear it everywhere is because it’s true. Not only happy, but happy. Not to settle or cope, but able to cultivate joy and self-love from within. If you are usually unhappy and place most of the blame on your bachelor status, it’s time to dig deeper and find out where your unhappiness really comes from; You may be surprised by what you find.
While a well-adjusted spouse can certainly help solve or alleviate these problems, these are usually things that you should identify and work on before merging your life with someone else’s life. Giving priority to soul searching before searching for twin souls will ultimately bring you happiness with stronger legs in the long run, and it will even help you attract more quality potential mates.
There is nothing wrong with dating around and making mistakes, but remember that spending time with your ass is time you can spend with your future husband. Even if you believe in love at first sight, there is no sure way to know for sure if you have just met the love of your life. But by identifying what to keep an eye on at first, at least you will filter out a lot of the nonsense. Much of this stems from the girl all the physical demands you have placed and opening yourself up to some of the more basic traits that will last longer than the mirror.
Once your relationship with a potential life partner is underway, the main predictors of marital success really come into play. This is the time when you start discussing plans, ideals and more serious values that prepare the stage for your relationship life with this person. Although issues like finances and family planning may seem much more logistical than romantic, married and divorced couples alike will tell you that these issues are worth a serious discussion.
Happily married couples will establish a foundation of trust, hobbies and common interests, and healthy media dynamics. Fortunately, entering into a relationship with a great sense of self and a carefully chosen partner will help these discussions fall more smoothly into place.
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