So she invites you to her place, or wants to go to your place. nice man! Whether you invited her for a drink, a movie or a caress of your hamster, she probably said yes because she wants to hang out with you alone. Do not let the flirtatious mess turn into an awkward silence before you kiss her! Make your move, you have it!
Before we go into details, let’s talk about erogenous zones. Obviously the breasts, clitoris and vagina are pretty major. Let’s go over the least known of them.
lips– Kiss her, try to snack or suck her lip
scalpMove your hands through her hair as you kiss her
ears– Many women will respond well to some oral attention to their earlobe.
Neck– Touching, kissing and tongue in the back of her neck will likely send chills along her spine directly to her clitoris.
Internal things– Once you are below the waist, try to tease her a bit by giving her inner thighs small kisses, licks and gentle bites. If her back is arched, you’re on point
There are many more: fingertips, abdomen, lower back, inner wrists, knees, buttocks, etc … Each woman is different and will respond uniquely to the stimulus. These erogenous zones are a pretty safe bet with most women, but have learned to read her body. Its responses to your touch should be the only instruction book you need.
If you kiss and she starts touching your body, it’s a sign that you can explore her body too. Your goal should be to make sure you both feel comfortable and have fun. I’m going to try very hard not to do this pornographic, but let’s talk about the basics. Foreplay is all about preparing your body for sex. You interrogate each other and try to light each other up. Do not focus on yourself, let her focus on your enjoyment. Instead, prioritize hers. Yes, foreplay feels really good – but you have to concentrate on touching it in a way that makes you feel good its. Notice how she reacts to your touch. Experiment with its erogenous zones. We want to see her back arched, hear sounds of her pleasure, and feel her hands desperately trying to get closer to you. In the end, we want her horny AF and her pussy wet enough for a skate and skate adventure. If you want to shock her world, eat her pussy and you’ll get the Stanley Cup. There are actually a lot of good tutorial videos on eating a glass on Pornhub. It can be a bit of an art form, and if you learn how to do it well it will adore your brush in a way you have never experienced.
I’m going to end with a public service announcement about boobs. The number of horror stories that women tell each other about guys snatching boobs like kids cooked in a candy store will drive you crazy. Please, for the love of God, Do not cling to her boobs and set up camp. You’re like boobs, and I’m like boobs, everyone loves tits- but please please please hear me when I say: if you go straight on the boobs and stay there, your experience will be very clear. Instead, show her that you are interested its, By exploring her body with your hands and mouth. Start with her hair, her neck, her back, follow the fingertips along her sides, and notice how she reacts to you. If she is calm, you can continue. If she’s having a hard time, slow down. If it stays tense for more than a few seconds, stop. When you touch her breasts, do not grab them and start pulling. Dude, they’re not udders. Instead, you can wash them from below and use your thumbs to stimulate her nipples. A lot of women like it a little rough, but do not let go. Every woman has different preferences and different levels of sensitivity. Start gently and increase your power based on its response.
Enjoy, get lost in each other. Do not panic or get stuck in your head. I assure you it’s not as scary or complicated as it seems. Once you understand the basics do not be afraid to be creative. Foreplay should be fun! It’s not only a harbinger of sex, it feels really good. Enjoy it, and enjoy each other.
If you have not already done so, check out Part 1 (beyond the date of taking her home) or Part 2 (Consent).
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